有关小仙女的100件小事100 Little Things About My Fairy
Translated from the Chinese original, first published on WeChat「世像」on October 23, 2017.本文 2017.10.23 首发于微信公众号「世像」。
"在认识你之前，我就像是呆在一个黑房间的人；可以制定目标，但我实际上看不清。后来遇到了你，遮蔽物被打开了，阳光照射了进来。"
第一部分：关于「特点和喜好」
1：小仙女名字带一个月字，她说我们的名字可以搞一个星（鑫）月传奇组合
2：她的鞋为37码
3：衣服穿165码左右
4：小仙女166cm，我179cm，属正常身高差。但她总说我看着只有170左右（无奈脸）
5：我之前总被人叫文艺青年，但她是真正的文艺青年。
6：仙女少女心满满，也很会享受生活，但不娇生惯养。
7：她是北方姑娘，却一直对南方情有独钟。
8：她是天秤座，我也是。
9：仙女热爱所有的节日，它让平淡无奇的生活充满仪式感。
10：她喜欢一切艺术的东西：画展，音乐会，音乐剧，展览，博物馆，摄影展，主题油画课。
11：极简的北欧风是她的最爱：白色墙面，白色吧台，白色书架，黑色金属框架吊顶，整个空间充满通透感。
12：中二时期的她，曾有这样的梦想：开一家书店&咖啡店，只卖自己喜欢的书，有大落地窗，开门溢出咖啡香。其实，自己也曾有过类似开一个图书馆的念头。
13：我们第一次一起吃饭，我就把她的指纹录入了自己的手机。
14：仙女热爱跑步，热爱健身，也喜欢各种户外运动。这一点，我们都一样。
15：她在大二就跑过了第一次比赛式的10km。后来还完成了半马，而自己在今年才有幸完成这个心愿。
16：仙女十分爱骑单车，但她车技其实一般。
17：平衡感不好的她，在学滑板时却很快就能上手了。
18：她最喜欢的歌手有金玟岐，喜欢的歌有：《理想三旬》
19：她心特别细。在看《楚辞》的时候，弄明白了自己家乡到底属于哪种文化。
20：舒婷的作品她最喜欢的是《致橡树》。
21：严歌苓是的最喜欢的作家之一。给我讲述过她的爱情故事。此外还有村上春树。
22：仙女的背影都很好看，例如逛街的背影，骑车的背影，还有别的种种背影。
23：仙女有点"不喜欢"小孩，因为觉得小时候他们实在太吵了。
24：仙女五子棋技术十分高超。之前和她下棋，一共只赢过两局，其余全部败下阵来。
25：她对开发美食保有浓烈的兴趣。最神奇是，不管在哪里，她总能找到和美食有关的一切。
26：仙女对富有情怀的小店总是很有兴趣，这也是她文艺气息的体现。
27：各种新开的评价的店，她也会经常光顾。
28：她爱去酒吧，但日常生活中却很少喝酒。
29：她最喜欢和想去的国家是日本。
30：护手霜她用欧舒丹。
31：眼部精华用的是倩碧。
32：HairTonic 和施华寇是她用的护发素。
33：喜欢兔子的布娃娃。
34：喜欢 JimmyChoo 的鞋。
35：仙女很喜欢看《蜡笔小新》，被逗笑的样子特别可爱。
36：她最喜欢的美剧是《欲望都市》。
37：我走路很快，她走路比较慢。现在已经协调成统一步速了。
38：她很爱收拾家，地板可以擦到直接躺下的程度。
第二部分：关于「饮食」
39：仙女其挺喜欢吃甜点。只不过很多时候怕胖不敢吃太多。去年中秋想吃甜的，就直接自己做了提拉米苏。
40：仙女爱吃水果。三天不能离开水果，水果控一点不为过。
41：她最爱吃的水果是草莓和芒果。
42：仙女吃各种蔬菜，尤其是绿色蔬菜，一点不挑食，饮食特别健康。
43：她喜欢清淡没有味道的东西。
44：各种抹茶味的东西都是她的爱，尤其抹茶冰激凌。
45：她还喜欢吃坚果，之前在办公室屯了很多。
46：各种各样的汤，也是她的爱。这也是她喜欢南方的原因吧。
47：她喜欢吃鱼丸。
48：我们俩都喜欢吃虾饺。
49：她喜欢云南米线。
50：也喜欢肠粉。
51：各种寿司，也是她的最爱之一和午饭晚饭选择。
52：她最爱虾，虾滑和鱼。
52：她基本不挑食，不过不吃羊肉。
53：各种豆制品也是她的爱，以及我的。
54：最近的她对红酒兴趣浓厚。
55：它基本不喝饮料。可乐都喝零度。
56：对各种酸奶饶有兴趣，情有独钟。
57：各种韩国菜也是她的最爱之一和必备。
58：还喜欢上好佳什锦水果硬糖。
59：她不太爱吃面。
60：我不会做饭，仙女其实挺会做饭，她做的意大利面特别好吃。
61：爱屋及乌。因为仙女我喜欢上了：烤冷面，豆皮，鸡蛋仔。这基本是我现在的日常食物。
62：我自己的饮食其实不是很健康，在仙女的帮助下，现在改善了好多。
63：我吃饭一直比较快。她说吃饭要细嚼慢咽，这样才不会得胃病，现在只要是吃饭，我都会想起她的话。
第三部分：关于「住宿、日常」
64：我们的第一次接吻就是舌吻，在东方新天地下面。
65：她说我穿衬衫很好看，所有我一直都喜欢穿衬衫。
66：仙女记忆力不好，爱忘事，但她记得每个我们的纪念日。
67：仙女睡眠不好，容易失眠，之前经常半夜两三点才能睡着。所以很羡慕我能秒睡的技能。
68：她有些痛经。
69：她对我说过最温暖的情话是：我养你呀。
70：我觉得仙女最美的三个瞬间（其实怎样都很美）：第一，第一次见面，在她公司。我略显紧张和娇羞，她落落大方。身穿一条黑色裙子，带一个金色边框眼镜；第二，每次抹完口红舔嘴唇的时候；第三，她和我说情话的时候，每次都很美。
71：刚开始我们两个上班的地方比较远，我就根据我走的地铁站名，开玩笑的说我翻山越岭的去看你，无心看风景。
第四部分：关于「现在和未来」
72：我很喜欢吃西瓜，经常不吃饭吃西瓜。于是我在她那里的备注是猪八戒。
73：她喜欢黄磊。有才华有责任感和烟火气的这样的明星。
74：她最喜欢的男明星是彭于晏。
75：睡觉前最后一条微信是她，醒来第一条微信还是她。
76：她能背出我的手机号码，我也记得她的号码，除了父母只记得她的。
77：我为她剪过指甲，洗过头，生病的时候凌晨打车去买药给她。
78：她姨妈期帮她洗衣服，做家务，她说好像我在虐待你。其实我心里挺美的。
79：她想去听一次彩虹合唱团的现场。
80：原本说好她做饭，我洗碗。后来基本没做饭，但碗还是我的~
81：买旅游保险时，紧急联系人和受保人那一栏写的是她的信息。
82：记得她生日、周期。
83：她一般撒娇，我就没辙了。
84：她性格特别好，但我之前对她不够好。
85：她一直都特别的包容我，给了我太多爱，太多关怀，太对成长，太多改变。
86：因为自己的性格以及种种问题，造成了很多过错。
87：有一段时间我特别喜欢吻她。
88：我见过他的同事、朋友和家人。
89：仙女有一次因为我出过一次糗：那次吃完饭站在商场门口，我在她前面走，她推了我一下，但正好这下她被鸟屎砸中。
90：之前自己特别任性，自私，惹她生气。
91：她陪我考试、陪我面试，陪我写论文，陪我度过了很多决定性的时刻。
92：我在马路上都会紧紧捉住她的手。
93：她送给我的礼物我最喜欢的一样是故宫的折扇，上面写着：朕亦甚想你。
94：我们有很多相同的爱好，兴趣以及对于未来的期许。
95：仙女曾经和我说：如果你哪天不爱我了，一定要告诉我，我一定不会纠缠你。但这一直是我自己的心里话却不敢告诉她。
96：她是真正懂我的人。懂我的坚强，懂我的软弱，懂我的柔软，懂我的逞强。懂我的好，懂我的差。
97：她是我的铠甲，也是我的软肋。
98：我们有很多有趣的经历，但我还有好多好多未知的人生想要和她去体验。
99：想陪她到最后。
100：仙女，生日快乐。
"Before I met you, I was like someone shut in a dark room — I could set goals, but I couldn't actually see. Then you came along, the blinds were pulled open, and the sunlight poured in."
Part One: Quirks and Favorites
1: The fairy's name has the character for "moon" in it. Mine has one that sounds just like "star" — so she said our names make a star-and-moon legend.
2: Her shoe size is 37.
3: Her clothes run about a size 165.
4: The fairy is 166 cm, I'm 179 — a perfectly normal height gap. But she insists I only look about 170. (Sigh.)
5: People always used to call me the artsy type, but she's the genuine article.
6: The fairy is full of girlish wonder and knows exactly how to enjoy life — but she's nothing like spoiled.
7: She's a northern girl with a lifelong soft spot for the south.
8: She's a Libra. So am I.
9: The fairy loves every holiday there is — they fill an ordinary life with a sense of ceremony.
10: She loves anything to do with art: gallery shows, concerts, musicals, exhibitions, museums, photography shows, themed oil-painting classes.
11: Minimalist Nordic style is her favorite: white walls, a white bar counter, white bookshelves, a black metal-frame ceiling — the whole space open and full of light.
12: In her dreamy teenage years, she had this fantasy: open a bookstore-café that sold only the books she loved, with huge floor-to-ceiling windows and the smell of coffee spilling out the door. Truth is, I once dreamed of opening a library myself.
13: The very first time we had a meal together, I registered her fingerprint on my phone.
14: The fairy loves running, loves the gym, loves all kinds of outdoor sports. On this we're exactly the same.
15: She ran her first proper 10K race back in sophomore year, and later finished a half marathon — a wish I only got to fulfill this year.
16: The fairy adores cycling, though her bike handling is honestly just so-so.
17: Her balance isn't great, yet when she tried skateboarding she picked it up almost immediately.
18: Her favorite singers include Jin Wenqi, and her favorite song is "Three Decades of Ideals."
19: She notices everything. While reading the Songs of Chu, she worked out exactly which cultural lineage her hometown belongs to.
20: Of Shu Ting's poems, her favorite is "To the Oak Tree."
21: Yan Geling is one of her favorite writers — she once told me Yan's love story. Haruki Murakami too.
22: The fairy looks lovely from behind, always — window-shopping, riding her bike, every other version of it.
23: The fairy is a little "not into" kids, because she thinks they were just far too loud when she was small.
24: The fairy is formidable at gomoku. Playing against her, I've won exactly two games ever; the rest were all defeats.
25: She has an intense passion for hunting down good food. The magical part: wherever she is, she can always find everything food-related.
26: She has a soft spot for little shops with soul — one more sign of her artsy streak.
27: She also makes the rounds of every well-reviewed new place that opens.
28: She loves going to bars, but in daily life she barely drinks.
29: The country she loves most and wants most to visit: Japan.
30: Her hand cream is L'Occitane.
31: Her eye serum is Clinique.
32: Hair Tonic and Schwarzkopf are her conditioners.
33: She loves bunny plush toys.
34: She loves Jimmy Choo shoes.
35: The fairy loves watching Crayon Shin-chan, and the way it cracks her up is unbearably cute.
36: Her favorite American show is Sex and the City.
37: I walk fast; she walks slow. We've since calibrated to a single shared pace.
38: She loves keeping house — she'll mop the floor until it's clean enough to lie down on.
Part Two: Food
39: The fairy actually loves dessert — she just often doesn't dare eat much for fear of gaining weight. Last Mid-Autumn Festival she wanted something sweet, so she simply made tiramisu herself.
40: The fairy loves fruit. She can't go three days without it — calling her a fruit addict is no exaggeration.
41: Her favorite fruits are strawberries and mangoes.
42: The fairy eats every vegetable there is, especially greens — not the least bit picky, and her diet is remarkably healthy.
43: She likes food that's light and plain.
44: Anything matcha-flavored is her love, matcha ice cream above all.
45: She loves nuts too — she once stockpiled a whole stash of them at the office.
46: Soups of every kind are another love of hers. Probably part of why she loves the south.
47: She likes fish balls.
48: We both love har gow — shrimp dumplings.
49: She likes Yunnan rice noodles.
50: And rice noodle rolls.
51: Sushi of all kinds — one of her favorites, and a standing lunch and dinner option.
52: What she loves most: shrimp, shrimp paste, and fish.
52: She's basically not picky at all — except she doesn't eat lamb.
53: Soy foods of every kind are her love. And mine.
54: Lately she's developed a keen interest in red wine.
55: She basically doesn't drink soft drinks. Even her Coke is Zero.
56: She has a real fondness — a devotion, even — for yogurt in all its forms.
57: Korean food of every kind is another favorite and a must-have.
58: She also loves Oishi assorted fruit hard candies.
59: She's not big on noodles.
60: I can't cook. The fairy actually cooks quite well — her pasta is especially delicious.
61: Love me, love my cravings. Because of the fairy I fell for grilled cold noodles, tofu skin, and egg waffles. That's basically my daily diet now.
62: My own eating habits weren't exactly healthy; with the fairy's help, they've improved enormously.
63: I've always eaten fast. She says you should chew slowly so you don't wreck your stomach — and now, every single meal, I think of her words.
Part Three: Home and the Everyday
64: Our first kiss was a French kiss, in the underground mall at Oriental Plaza.
65: She said I look good in shirts, so I've worn shirts ever since.
66: The fairy has a bad memory and forgets things constantly — but she remembers every single one of our anniversaries.
67: The fairy sleeps badly and is prone to insomnia; she often couldn't fall asleep until two or three in the morning. Which is why she deeply envies my ability to be out cold in seconds.
68: She gets period cramps.
69: The warmest thing she's ever said to me: "I'll take care of you."
70: The three moments I find the fairy most beautiful (though really, she's beautiful in all of them): first, the day we met, at her office — I was visibly nervous and bashful, and she was all poise, in a black dress and gold-rimmed glasses; second, whenever she licks her lips after putting on lipstick; third, whenever she says sweet things to me — beautiful every single time.
71: In the beginning our offices were far apart, so — riffing on the names of the subway stations along my route — I'd joke that I crossed mountains and ridges to come see you, with no heart left for the scenery.
Part Four: Now and the Future
72: I love watermelon — I'll often skip a meal and just eat watermelon instead. So in her phone, I'm saved as Zhu Bajie, the gluttonous pig from Journey to the West.
73: She likes Huang Lei — the kind of star with talent, a sense of responsibility, and a down-to-earth warmth.
74: Her favorite actor is Eddie Peng.
75: The last WeChat message before I sleep is hers. The first one when I wake is hers too.
76: She can recite my phone number from memory, and I remember hers — the only number I know by heart besides my parents'.
77: I've trimmed her nails, washed her hair, and once, when she was sick, taken a cab in the small hours to buy her medicine.
78: During her period I do her laundry and the housework. She says it feels like she's mistreating me. Honestly, inside, I'm delighted.
79: She wants to see the Rainbow Chamber Singers live one day.
80: The original deal was: she cooks, I do the dishes. She basically stopped cooking — but the dishes are still mine~
81: When I bought travel insurance, the emergency contact and the beneficiary lines both had her information on them.
82: I remember her birthday. And her cycle.
83: The moment she turns on the charm, I'm utterly defenseless.
84: Her temperament is wonderful — and I wasn't good enough to her before.
85: She has always been endlessly forgiving with me, given me so much love, so much care, so much growth, so much change.
86: My own personality, and all my assorted problems, caused a lot of hurt.
87: There was a stretch of time when I especially loved kissing her.
88: I've met her colleagues, her friends, and her family.
89: The fairy once embarrassed herself because of me: we'd finished dinner and were standing outside the mall, I was walking ahead of her, and she gave me a shove — and at that exact moment, a bird pooped on her.
90: I used to be terribly willful and selfish, and I made her angry.
91: She sat with me through exams, through interviews, through my thesis — through so many of the decisive moments of my life.
92: Crossing any street, I hold her hand tight.
93: Of all the gifts she's given me, my favorite is a folding fan from the Forbidden City, inscribed with an emperor's line: "We miss you dearly."
94: We share so many of the same hobbies, interests, and hopes for the future.
95: The fairy once told me: "If the day comes when you don't love me anymore, you must tell me — I promise I won't cling." Which had always been my own secret line, the one I never dared say to her.
96: She is the one who truly understands me. My strength and my weakness, my softness and my bravado. My best, and my worst.
97: She is my armor — and my Achilles' heel.
98: We've had so many wonderful adventures already, but there is so, so much unknown life I still want to go experience with her.
99: I want to be beside her to the very end.
100: Happy birthday, my fairy.
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